Going On Vacation With Kids
When most people think of going on vacation, the first thing that comes to mind is simply relaxing. But there are other important things to consider, like packing for instance. Few people realize that when traveling with kids, a lot of clothing is needed. As well as a change in eating habits should be factored in. There are so many different aspects of preparing for a trip that will make it complicated, but I’ve learned the hard way and want to save others from the headaches I’ve faced while vacationing with kids. When most people think of family vacations, visions of Disneyworld, Grand Canyon, French Quarter parades and San Francisco cable cars flash in their heads. Back home they might miss a few things they loved while on vacation but vacation is always remembered as a special time to be shared with family and friends. Now take this family vacation picture and replace the smiling faces with whining kids missing you. Do not fret yet – join us to make your next getaway now more fun!
If you’re like I was before I had kids, you spend countless hours staring at the beach or pool on Google Earth screen-savers…before that was just a thing. It really seems like paradise to us, right? Clear water and warm weather — what could be better? Vacations are the perfect time for families to enjoy themselves and each other’s company. Most of the time, that means being away from home. But has your computer ever made decisions for you?
Going On Vacation With Kids
Travel can be an enlightening and eye-opening experience for children of all ages: there’s new foods, experiences and sights, not to mention quality family time. But traveling with children can also be an overwhelming proposition — unpredictable schedules, long packing lists and cranky kids are just a few of the challenges you may encounter along the way. But here we’ll help you make traveling with kids a breeze. After all, you and your children should enjoy every moment seeing the world and create a lifetime of memories along the way. Isn’t that the point of travel in the first place?
Keeping Kids Engaged, at Any Age
You’re looking forward to that upcoming family vacation, but you want to make sure younger family members will have fun, too.
The specific strategies you can use to help children have a good time on the road depends on how old they are: A baby has very different needs than a toddler or tween. But however old your child is, be sure to do some pre-trip research on kid-friendly activities in your destination that you and your family can take advantage of. A little preparation will go a long way.
Infants
Children in the newborn to age 2 range are the easiest to travel with in many respects, according to Rainer Jenss, the president and founder of the Family Travel Association, a trade group for family travel. “Kids this age are portable,” he said. “You can take them anywhere and keep them happy as long as you create a comfortable environment for them and keep them on their routine.”
Amanda Norcross, the features editor of the online travel magazine Family Vacation Critic, agrees that schedules are incredibly important for infants. “If your infant is on an eating or sleep schedule, try to stay as close to that as possible on vacation and plan your days accordingly,” she said.
Be sure to bring along your infant’s favorite toys, books and bottles while on your adventures, and don’t keep him or her strapped in a baby carrier or stroller all day — give your baby the opportunity to walk and get some exercise; if your infant isn’t walking yet, he or she can still stretch on a mat or roll around.
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Toddlers
Toddlers are a fun age because they’ll start to engage in the different sights around them, Ms. Norcross said. “Destinations get to be enjoyable for them to explore,” she said. But when building your itinerary, be sure to leave plenty of down time to let them release and refuel their energy by hitting a playground or your hotel’s pool.
Mr. Jenss is also a fan for spending time in local parks with toddlers. “The more open space your toddler has to run around, the happier he or she will be,” he said. As a bonus, you’re likely to meet local parents who can advise you on other activities for your toddler in town and also tell you names of kid-friendly restaurants to dine at.
School-Age Children
The key to keeping kids 5 and older engaged on a family trip is to get them involved in the planning, even in a small way, Mr. Jenss said. “The more you empower kids this age to pick what they’re interested in doing, whether it’s seeing a cool site or trying surfing, the more engaged they will be,” he said.
Tip: Let your children choose between several activities instead of giving them no direction whatsoever. In a beach destination, for example, the options might be a half-day snorkeling trip or a fishing excursion. In an urban setting, share choices of interesting walking tours, and let them pick the one or two which appeal to them the most.
Eric Stoen, the founder of the online family travel site Travel Babbo, said that choosing the right guides goes a long way in keeping your kids excited about where they are. When you’re researching tours and activities, he said, read online reviews to learn about which guides have engaged well with kids in the past. A great guide can have a profound effect on your children: Mr. Stoen’s son, for example, has become an excellent sketcher because of an artist in London who led the family on an art tour around the city. “It’s a tour that literally changed his life,” he said.
Teenagers
Ms. Norcross said that the best way to keep teenagers engaged is to have them take ownership in planning a part of your trip. She suggests having them choose some attractions which they are interested in seeing and even letting them design one of two days of your itinerary.
Also, Mr. Jenss, a father of two teenagers, said that parents may want to consider giving older teens the option to spend an hour or two exploring the destination on their own —maybe they want to check out a certain neighborhood or go to specific stores. “As long you and your teen both feel safe, he or she is going to be super excited about having some time alone,” he said.
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Picking a Destination
With the world as your proverbial oyster, it may be hard to narrow down a destination for a family trip. How do you choose?
Interests First, Destination Second
Don’t choose a destination, choose what you want to do, Mr. Jenss said. Do you want to relax on the beach? Do you want an adventure packed nature getaway? Are you seeking an urban escape? “Once you decide how you want to spend your time off, you can decide where to go,” he said.
Some ways to think about your destination:
- Beach vacations work with children of any age.
- Theme parks are best when kids are between the ages of 3 and 12 — children younger than 3 won’t be able to go on most of the rides, and older kids aren’t always interested in theme parks.
- Cruises are a good bet for school-age and teenage children because they can be fairly independent and keep busy with a range of activities.
“All family-friendly cruise lines have kids and teens clubs,” Mr. Jenss said.
Also, be open to visiting international destinations, and if you have school-age or teenage children, ask them where they want to go — involving them in the decision process will make the trip that much more memorable for them. It’s a strategy that works well for Mr. Stoen’s family. “I let each of my three children pick a destination for one of the three trips we take a year,” he said. He has traveled to 48 countries with his children including Japan, Australia, Belize and the Maldives, as well as Antarctica.
Getting a Passport
All children need passports when traveling internationally, even infants. On its site, United States Department of State details the steps you need to take to apply for a passport for your child. New applications or renewals for children under the age of 16 must be done in person, either at a post office or at a passport acceptance facility. Both parents or guardians must be either be present in person or provide a notarized letter to the parent who is. (You can find the passport acceptance facility closest to you on the State Department’s site.)
While you are getting a passport for any family members who don’t have one, be sure to check the expiration dates of those you do have. Some countries have rules about how long your passport must be valid for after your trip.
For the latest information available about the country you’re headed to, including what vaccinations you may need, if a visa is required to travel there, and how long your passport needs to be valid for, check the site for the State Department’s Bureau of Consular Affairs.
